Des:Im worried that she cant etch with a woman because shes too big to have one. If you show Ji-po to your mother-in-law, who cant see me being so depressed, the situation will be weird. In fact, my dad was as frustrated as being genderless! I like Bigchin! The desire to persevere arises, and the greater desire is in front of you, and you cant bear it! My mother-in-law Makos violent need for Decachin!